Now that the shock is over!

OK so as everyone knows Jason the Bachelor chose Molly in the end, and I know that 90% of my friends were for Melissa. But I ,however; and my friend Kim were for Molly. First of all in the end it doesn't matter who he chose its not our life its his. I understand that what he did to Melissa was hurtful and maybe wrong to do on National TV, but as most people know they said that ABC paid Melissa to do it that way. And when Jason came out there he told Chris that Melissa knew something was up, b/c of the talks that they had previous to the show. And yes i know he broke her heart, but did you ever think that Molly got her heart broken on TV as well just 3 months prior...no b/c yall were all pissed off at him for doing a HUMAN thing. This happens in the real world every single day and no one gets pissed off about it. Its the fact that this was on national television that everyone now has an opinion about it. I know that people don't understand Jason's follow your heart speech, but I've been there before and if you are one of my very close friends you know that i had been wrapped up in a similar situation. Its hard to let that person go, but in the end you know its better for you and the people around you. I give Jason big points for doing what he did, i don't care what you say but that takes big guts. He could have been a shumk about it and wrote her a letter or called her on the phone; like most guys do, but he did it face to face....and yeah yeah yeah i know its on TV, but this whole experience was on TV...so get over it.

Next fact, these 25 girls all sign up for this show knowing that everything that they do is going to be aired across the world and they have a chance of falling in love and getting engaged or getting the heart broke and stepped on. So in the end don't judge them for what happen and please stop judging them about the clothes they were, pick something else to gripe about. We don't care what you wear whey should we care what they wear. I still love all my friends that wanted Melissa to be there in the end, but life will go on...